Just an update....
We now are legal guardians of Brayden and Gavyn.  I for the life of me cannot understand some of this state's procedures...Birth mom can still take us to court every 6 months to try and regain custody..at what point does this state say enough is enough?  It's been 11 months, hard to believe the boys birthdays are next month which will be our one year anniversary of having them with us.  They have come soooo far in one year. Like completely different children.  It's been quite the journey, but here's to hoping the journey ahead is a little more pleasant than the last year :)